Quality Time RESPOND TO WIN A BOOK – Who doesn’t love to spend time with the one you love?  Some of us, myself included, need quality time with our spouse to feel really loved.  This is Chapman’s second love language.  First I want to stress the word QUALITY.  This is not the time you spend...
Do You Hear What I am Saying?? Communication isn’t as easy as it seems.  We all tend not to say what we want to say and say things that have hidden meanings.  The Tip for the day is try to Listen to the FEELINGS underneath the words that are said.  Is the person angry? Are they hurt?  Do they feel trapped?  As a husband I KNOW...
Difficult Communication “I FEEL”  Those two words can save your relationship.  Let me tell you how.  When we have difficult things to say to someone it is best if we speak about ourselves instead of them.  As an example if I want to ask someone I care about to stop calling me so many times a day, I could say;...
Communication Tips. Many of the people I meet with through CAREWorks, have trouble communicating with the people around them, whether it is their spouse or boss at work.  There are some simple communication tips that can help with just about any relationship.  First, one of my heroes, Dale Carnegie, says in his book, How to...