Direction – Direction Everyone needs some help in picking the direction for their lives. Some of the decisions are Life Changing, like should we have children. That is not something you just try, to see if you kike it. Some decisions are rather small but may have a big impact later. Should I borrow money to buy a car – not...

Life is Tough The  way we learn best is by doing things.  Well the way kids learn is the same, they have to have the opportunity to work through things.  I was talking to a dad today and he is concerned about his kids.  There are some things going on at school that are causing anxiety.  So what do you do?  They did...

Value of Values Most of us are guided everyday by our core Values yet many of us never stop to think, “What are my core Values? I like the advice that Stephen Covey gives in 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, he says that you should start with the end in mind.  When it comes to core Values the end might the the end...

Improve Communications If you want to improve your communications you need to understand the Four basic ways people process information. People are either fast, or slow processors and either outward, or inward processors. Fast processors don’t need to think much about information before they have an opinion.  Slow processor...

Core Beliefs are like Maps Maps help you get to where you are trying to go.  When a Map is out of date it causes you to take paths that you wouldn’t normally take.  Well your Core beliefs are like that.  Often they contain errors or are out of date and they force you to make decisions that you probably shouldn’t make....

How’s Your ATTITUDE?? Research has shown that our attitude often makes the difference between success and failure.  The Placebo effect is very active in our lives.  If we BELIEVE that something will work the chances of success goes up significantly.  If your brain believes a medication (really a sugar pill) will work it has a...

DECISION MAKING Our brains are amazing, able to make 100 trillion calculations per second.  Then why do we make such BAD Decisions at times?  It is because our brains are also wired to make decisions based on Feelings and feelings are often programed by our experiences and environment.  If you grew up in a household that...

Need a Life Coach? Every professional or amateur athlete has a Coach.  They want to get better at what they do so they ask someone else to watch them and give them direction.  What am I doing well, and what could I be doing differently?  Have you ever looked at your life as needing outside coaching?  It is interesting...

FEARS Drive Us What are you Afraid of?  Fear is a very strong motivator but often it causes us to make bad decisions.  I’m not talking about being afraid of a charging Rhino, but our everyday Fears like; Fear of rejection, Fear of the unknown, Fear of consequences,  Fear of failure, or just plain Fear of life not...

Different PERSONALITIES Do you have the best personality?  Are you a go getter? Are you a helper of people? Maybe you are great at catching all the details? Or perhaps you excel in communication with others?  Like most of us you are most likely a blend of a bunch of different attributes.  WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT!  You probably...